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My mothers tries to control everything i do and can't take it if i say no or i don't do what she wants and gets mean.

For example : If i say i want to join fitness classes soon she searches yoga classes for me without my permission, then if i say i am not interested in yoga, she can't take it and tries to convince and force me and even gets mean. I wanted other fitness classes since i wasn't into yoga. She says my choices are waste.

She does same with my studies, she forces me to do what she wants me to do instead of helping me or letting me do what i want and can't take it if i can't or won't do what she expects. She doesn't appreciate what i do or what i want to do. And she can't tolerate if i do any mistakes or ask her anything wrong, she thinks/says i am so dumb to be good at anything.

She says she does it for my good, but i feel controlled, pulled back and trapped instead of helped, guided or uplifted.

I really dislike her behavior, she is very controlling and mean even if she provides me with money when i need.
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AliyaNahid · 26-30, F
Your mom is amazing that she is putting you through classes or courses, many kids put themselves through college or any courses. I can't get over the fact that she loves you. If you don't like as you are not into yoga, get on up and say frankly that you can't take it. Kindly guide her that she is wasting money if she puts you through yoga classes. Most importantly, you will pull off all challenges in your life , trust me, but make sure not to be broken in sth which is not your type. Yoga only helps mental health enrichment That is it. However, if you do any exercise that has been way helpful whether fitness classes or any other workout. Think it through before putting your toes in the water. If she tries to dump things on you. Don't take it all in. Let go of it. Have a great day
@AliyaNahid just the opposite. You sound like a narcissist yourself to tell her something like that. You are so wrong on this