Family resentment

I was born in Italy, moved to the uk when i was 3, i habe this resentment and hatred towards my mum and dad for having moved to the uk. I cannot stand England and want to move ro Italy so badly, ive missed 30 odd years in Italy that i will go back to sort

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Fluffybull · F

Perhaps find a more friendly part of England? Not all places are the same. Tbh, you sound as if you have a bit of a chip on your shoulder. Maybe your attitude has something to do with what you see as others' "resentment"?

NeptuneAscending · 36-40, M

@Fluffybull I dont have a chip on my shoulder thats too mildly, i absolutely detest my parents for having to move in the uk, to the point where i have this hatred deep inside me towards them

SW-User

@NeptuneAscending have they explained why they moved?

NeptuneAscending · 36-40, M

@SW-User Their explanation was that my dad, no one else was involved in deciding only my dad thought that the uk had a better way of life and/or jobs ? I have no idea, my mum did not agree to his decision but because of him being the man of the house everyone had to follow him, fuck knows why. He also moved to holland before i was born once with my two brothers and sister, they were under the age of 10, for a year or two that didnt work out, so moved back to italy after, he also went to the uk for the first time, again before i was born with my brothers and sister, they were under the age of 10 again, for a few years and that never worked out and again returned to italy, and the i was born, and when i was around 5 ish, he moved for the third time, and to the uk, thats when we stayed, not only that, but after the move he fucked off back to italy after 20 odd years ?? And said he hated the uk and regrets the move.