For those of you who are divorced what happened?
Who decided it was time to divorce? Did you have a seperation first? What is your divorce story? How many times have you been divorced?
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ErecSchunn · 46-50, M
First marriage was because I got her pregnant when I was 17 and “tried to do the right thing”. Obviously that was a disaster. Second marriage lasted 24 years…. Started out strong, but by the end of it she was married for social status (public figure). After it ended and I talked with my family, I realized she was emotionally abusing me like crazy most of the duration. She did break me down pretty hard core, and two years later I’m finally starting to rebound
robertsnj · 56-60, M
@ErecSchunn man do the right thing is probalby always the wrong thing--and the crazy thing is you, and most others in that situation probably are way too young to make a decision as big as marriage. Hats off for you for giving it a shot shot though.
Oh wow public figure. 24 is a long long time.
what does rebound look like for you? (if your comfortable talking about it) I see Dom / Switch on your profile / how does that factor into all of this?
Oh wow public figure. 24 is a long long time.
what does rebound look like for you? (if your comfortable talking about it) I see Dom / Switch on your profile / how does that factor into all of this?
ErecSchunn · 46-50, M
@robertsnj I was 100% vanilla throughout the marriage. I didn’t even know what LS meant and then I met someone who introduced me to it little by little, and over the last couple of years. I’ve kind of figured out what I enjoy.
The rebound for me has been up-and-down. On one hand, I seriously doubt that I will be able to 100% commit to a single person, after the damage I’ve received. On the other hand, I’m not a person who goes out, just has random sex, I like to have a connection with people and an emotional bond of sorts. So finding people that kind of fit that criteria are pretty difficult, it’s kind of a middle ground type thing and pretty much everyone either wants a one night stand or a commitment.
The rebound for me has been up-and-down. On one hand, I seriously doubt that I will be able to 100% commit to a single person, after the damage I’ve received. On the other hand, I’m not a person who goes out, just has random sex, I like to have a connection with people and an emotional bond of sorts. So finding people that kind of fit that criteria are pretty difficult, it’s kind of a middle ground type thing and pretty much everyone either wants a one night stand or a commitment.