For divorced people:

Before you divorced or during the time you were thinking about it, did you send off warning signals to any in laws? Tell them you were unhappy, complain, or somehow or drop hints? Maybe to prepare them or like a last cry for help maybe?

I think my sister in law is thinking about leaving my brother. Maybe.

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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

Since they were “clannish” I knew better to peep out a hint. They found out when he told them. I tried to tell my mother-in-law years before and she was not supportive of what I told her. She would rather believe her firstborn son. She did wake up a bit after I told her a couple years later about him asking for a turkey dinner and I reminded him about it before he left for work and then he didn’t come home to eat it that evening. She was really pissed about that. I think she knew where the marriage was headed.