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Child support

I’m feeling somewhat strong. “I am finally coming to terms with not wanting my ex husbands child support. Mostly because he sees it as helping me and not helping his child. I find that I feel obligated to him. I think I will feel more free of him, if and when I give up child support “
Mindful
56-60, F
42 replies 131 views Mar 28, 2022
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Repete · 70-79, M
The money is the kids money . His thinking he’s helping you may be partly true but only in it helps the kid and that might mean you may have an extra dollar or two for yourself . Not for him .
Your feeling obligated , easier said than done maybe but DON’T . He is giving the kid what he should be giving anyway.
This is just my opinion.
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Adrift · 61-69, F
@Repete Agreed. Writing a check is the easy part.
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Repete · 70-79, M
That’s the truth . Speaking as a single parent myself .@Adrift
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