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Why does my daughter keep talking to her ex

His own Mom told her he was a narcissist. He has her crying hysterically on the phone now.

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SlippingAway

He probably love bombed her and she's empathetic. Narcissist draw empathetic people in :(

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SlippingAway

@MyNameIsHurl Wish I knew good advice but unfortunately she's going to have to see him for what he really is and that sometimes takes time

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@SlippingAway yep, it's the only way. I do damage control afterwords.

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@SlippingAway I'm gonna intervene because sh is seriously hysterical. He needs to hear my voice, little pussy ass fucker.

SW-User

Narcissists have a way of making someone feel, and making someone question their own reality that they remain perpetually suspended in confusion. I've read of so many 'survivors' who have had to go through healing to come out of that kind of trauma.

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@SW-User I know, she will be fine, I do damage control. I've dealt with this type of shit my whole life.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@SW-User I was perpetually gaslit by my narc ex. Took me a while to see that there was a pattern because my p-whipped dumb ass couldn't recognize it.

Ontheroad · M

Sometimes people are so attached, even dependent another person it's near impossible to let them go... even if they keep hurting them. Hopefully she'll soon get enough of him and move on.

SW-User

Low self esteem hopefully she breaks free

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MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@SW-User thank you ❤️

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@SW-User I hate to let it even go on, but if I don't let her learn now, she will keep finding the same type of person over and over

SW-User

@MyNameIsHurl that's the truth but it's hard watching your kid go through that I know

Viper · M

Probably because she's made an emotional attachment.... and because she believes he can become as good as she believes he can be....

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@Viper she will be done with him real soon

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

Pisses me off to watch.

Captainjackass · 31-35, M

Tell her to her face she’s being stupid about this. Maybe send the cat in to help too.

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@Captainjackass no way

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Narcs aren't great at taking "no" for an answer.

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@MyNameIsHurl They all do the same stupid shit. They even SAY the same stupid shit, which I find creepy. Like they all watched the same TV show or something. But they are people I would eliminate from Earth in a single push of a button if I could. I can't think of any good that they do.

MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F

@uncalled4 they're extremely broken people and of you expose that, they unravel real fast.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@MyNameIsHurl They unravel anyway. If often doesn't take much. Possibly my least favorite people, ever.

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