I spent over 14 hours years never using birth control and only conceiving once, and let me tell you, I should have had about 1000 kids had there not been fertility issues. Because guys typically just don't wanna wear a condom and they don't wanna pull out. Some guys I dated did of course take precautions but not typically. But, when I did get pregnant a few years ago a second time I knew I couldn't have an abortion. The last one with that one miracle pregnancy really is still my biggest regret to this day. But I know that not everyone with fertility problems is so lucky.
I'm glad I had a boy because of what I've been through as a female that I would not have endured was I a male. I don't want to say females have it harder in life than males but we do in many ways. So, I'm glad I had a boy. Yeah.