Do you, or did you plan to have kids?

If so, how many and when did you start having them?

If not, was there a particular reason?

I'm sorry if this is a triggering question.

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Nate931 · 31-35, M

I always pictured myself having kids, though I did not necessarily know when I would want them. In my early 20s I met the love of my life. I figured we would have kids some day, though we were together for 8 years before we did. When we were in our late 20s it just felt like the right time (this is also when we got married). We now have two kids, a girl who just started 1st grade and a boy who's still a toddler. :)