Do you, or did you plan to have kids?

If so, how many and when did you start having them?

If not, was there a particular reason?

I'm sorry if this is a triggering question.

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hunkalove · 70-79, M

I remember being very young and looking at my father and thinking if that's what it's like to be a father I never want to be one. And looking at my parents and thinking if that's what it's like to be married I don't want to. And I haven't.