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Children getting sex changed?

"The report details 97 girls and boys treated between 1998 and 2010; the youngest was 4 years old. Kids that young and their families get psychological counseling and are monitored until the first signs of puberty emerge, usually around age 11 or 12. Then children are given puberty-blocking drugs, in monthly $1,000 injections or implants imbedded in the arm."
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RosaMarie · 46-50, F
Forty years ago there were people who said that teenagers were too young to 'decide' if they were gay. Clinton, a democratic president in the 90s, said gay people could serve in the army, as long as they didn't talk about it. Imagine today an employer saying that it's ok to be gay, just shut up about it. But that was only 30 years ago. The fight for rights and acceptance that the gay community went through in the 80s and 90s is the same fight the trans community is going through now.

While it is true that we are all quite different at 20 or 40 then we are at 5, 10, or 15, there are some fundamental things that are part of each person's persona which remain unchanged. I remember hearing the arguments about how old a person should be to be old enough to 'decide' to be gay. I knew my own sexuality long before I was 18. So did all the kids I grew up with, gay or straight. A gay kid today isn't the scandal it was in the 80s.

Sadly, it will take another generation or two for the same level of acceptance for the trans community.
carpediem · 61-69, M
@RosaMarie Still, that doesn’t mean it’s ok to sexualize a child. A person’s choice is one thing. But don’t push it on a child. In my opinion that’s abuse and should be dealt with as abusive criminal behavior.
RosaMarie · 46-50, F
@carpediem I have only one direct personal experience in this, which is my nephew. He brought it up to his parents at age 10. From 10 to 14 he went by a new name and wore boys clothes. He went to weekly therapy. He was formally diagnosed with gender dysphoria. Not the first day he said it, but after much time with mental health professionals. At 14, his doctor started him on male hormones. The regular visits with mental health professionals have continued. Surgeries will not occur until he is 18. The health care providers have made that clear every step of the way.

I can personally attest that no grooming, pushing, or any other form of persuasion or coercion occured. Every step of the process improved his mental health, grades, personality, and outlook.

One example isn't a trend or representative. That being said, I do think that the idea of this being forced on kids is largely a fabrication of the Christan right as a scare tactic. For such a condition to be true, two people at least would need to be willing participants. The first would be the kid's own parent or parents. This would mean that a parent would value the idea of transgender above the health of their own child. The second willing participant would be the doctor. That doctor would have to value transgender conversions above the health of their patient. While not impossible, I think it's fair to say that scenario is unlikely.

I won't sit here and try to state that it has never happened. But I am trying to make the case that if it happens it is by far the minority of cases. The majority of minors being treated are following the same path that I walked through above. It may start earlier or later, but it always starts with the kid expressing a thought and feeling that something isn't right. There was no effort to recruit gays in the 80s and 90s and there isn't an effort to recruit trans kids now.

In the very unlikely case of actual grooming, the participants should be charged with abuse. In the vast majority of cases where parents are trying to seek the best mental health care they can for their kids, the government should stay the hell out of the way and let the parents and doctors do what is best.

As a side note, the Christan groups that make efforts to fix or cure LGBTQ in kids are far more prevalent and do clear, documented harm. Some of those programs have suicide rates of near 50%. If you want to call out people for abusing kids, there is an easy target for you.