Gender disappointment I don't want a boy. I think I should give baby up for adoption. I have a...

The child is innocent of the things that happened to you. You’ve experienced monsters, don’t become one.

deadgerbil · 26-30

It could be viewed as an opportunity to raise a boy and instill good values within him. However, if you can't provide that type of stable and healthy environment, it's probably best to give the kid up

Ingwe · F

You are in a position to change things, to teach a boy how to treat a woman. This is how we break the cycle.

SW-User

No, please don't do that. He is an innocent baby just like your girl was/is. If you give him the love and support he needs, he won't be like his dad. Stay away from his dad and make sure you are the only influence on him.

DaveyWavey01 · M

I obviously don't know you or your situation, but you need to decide what is right for you and the baby. If you believe adoption is the best decision all round then you make that choice. First person who can help you is you

rrraksamam · 31-35, M

LizOwen · 41-45, F

Boys are great! Just love him and you;ll be fine!

Fairydust · F

He won’t take after his father if you raise him right.
Sons can be a blessing, my ex was abusive but my son is nothing like him. He’s a lovely young man.

SW-User

You should love your son. He will protect you in the future. Boys turn into strong men.

Miram · 31-35, F

This is cruel.

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