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If your ex told you they were having a baby with their new partner because they are exotic looking and smart, would you be hurt by this?

I would be deeply grateful that he was my ex and I didn't have to deal with a jerk who thinks and says such intentionally hurtful nonsense.

If he says it again, nod thoughtfully and then point out, "But your child would have YOUR genes, too."
SW-User
no, that's a pretty stupid reason to have kids with somebody
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
When I was like 21 my ex called me at my new bf's house [no thanks to my roomies who gave out the #]. After we got past the OMFG WHY ARE YOU CALLING HERE, we hadnt split on bad terms so had a catch up where I learned he'd knocked up the next girl and she'd already dumped him and she hadn't even had it yet *I dodged a bullet folks* ... never talked to him again.

Yo Jimmy, I hope you're well man.
LemonWorld · 36-40, F
I wouldn't give a fck
Why would I care??? They're my ex, so they don't need to remain faithful to me in the hope that I one day decide to date them again.

My ex got married a few years ago - it made no difference to me or my life going forward from here.
wackidywack · 22-25
No I don't care
Lostpoet · M
Nope, because she looks plain and dumb AF.

That's what I'd mutter under my breath as I walk away.
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
I seen my ex husband just the other day. His wife is 30 week's pregnant now
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duckduckbooze · 46-50, F
I'd be shocked, since he has absolutely no interest in having children.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
Only if I was hoping to get back together….

Otherwise no.
Casheyane · F
I might worry for his sanity if those are his reasons lol
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Be glad he's out of my life
RupertCornelius · 36-40, M
i'd be relieved to not be a parent.
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Lol i wouldn't care
Bang5luts · M
No. I would say something very complimenting. Like, I always knew good find someone more suited for your tastes. Then smile big and walk away knowing they are going to be thinking about that for a long time trying to figure out if that was a compliment or something rude related to something they said, either way you win by not being trapped by them for years and years because of having a child together and in knowing they now think you are smarter than they have you credit. 😊you're welcome.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
IDGAF what she does. I might audibly laugh if she called to tell me that.
It wouldn’t be my business anymore, either way.
caccoon · 36-40
I'd be happy for them. I think it's good to be attracted to your partner.

If they were trying to say it with the intention of hurting me, then yeah, I wouldn't care haha
Bang5luts · M
Monkeys are exotic, so are baboons. 😆
DDonde · 31-35, M
No, I don't care.
PirateMonkeyCabinet · 36-40, M
I would not be hurt at all, no reason for me to be hurt.

I'd rather be worried about my ex's mental state if she suddenly decided to have kids after all despite her having been adamant about not wanting kids for good reasons. Even more worrying if the only reasons are that their partner is exotic looking and smart.
empanadas · 31-35, M
Naw I feel bad for the guy that got her preggo. He is going to have to deal with her all his life now 😂

 
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