Never Having Kids EVER

I almost certainly will never adopt. I don't like humans THAT much to want to be saddled with a kid who will probably have developmental issues and/or lingering trauma from neglect or abuse.

My joints hurt.

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AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

I have a buddy who he and his wife are incapable of having kids. When I asked him why didn’t he adopt he said “I couldn’t love something that wasn’t mine biologically “.
I respected his honesty and I respect yours .

Doomflower · 41-45, M

@AthrillatheHunt my half brother is rich and he spent tens of thousands to have his "own" because he decided AFTER A VASECTOMY that he did want kids so they extracted his ball juice and made embryos in petri dishes and turkey bastered them into his wife until one of them took. They did this TWICE. Because he wouldn't love a kid that wasn't "his" and I'm like... that poor kid will NEVER be good enough for my half brother.

We are

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Last time I saw him was like 10 years ago at my sisters wedding.

AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

@Doomflower I know a girl who paid over 30k for 3 invitro fertilizations .
She kept miscarrying but had a successful birth on the third try .