I hate the realities my parents and their families are living in.

And their family members are fueling that reality.
They just can't handle that we are so accomplished, so they are gnawing my parents over the things we don't have: wedding rings.
And instead of celebrating my wins and my sister's wins, we are being told it's so so tragic that we are still single and that my parents need to worry about it.
And so my mother is absolutely spent. She is so anxious and depressed about it.

This is what people do. They can't see anyone achieve things in life. They will make sure to make you upset. And my parents love taking the bait.