Is anyone in your family racist?

Crazy question but is this something that everyone just has to deal with? 🙄🫤

My mom is the type of person who always has to clarify she's definitely not racist but...

If she's ever having a conversation with a black person I have to hold my breath with anxiety and do my best to not pay attention 😩

I love her, she's a great mom and good person, she's more just ignorantly racist and curious rather than actually racist

But it's definitely very frustrating regardless