3 years since i talked to my oldest brother. nobody talks to him anymore. He decided to become trouble because our dad passed away.
he was waiting for our dad to pass away. so he could act the way he wanted. his wife kicked him out of his house and he had to live with us for a while. They were always arguing. he seen that, since my dad was no longer gonna be around any longer....that we could take him in and it would save him having to look for his own place.
He seen it as a chance to be a loud mouth. Because he hated being kicked out of his wifes house and he thought we would tolerate him . So 2 our 3 days before my dad passed my brother moved in. And the first thing he started doing....singing really loudly. And he did it on the day of our dads funeral as we were all getting ready.
And he kept it up for a full 4 months as a way to test us all....every day....3 or 4 times a day singing really loudly...even standing over out shoulder in the kitchen breathing down on us when he saw were having dinner....anything to anger us. He stopped after 4 months because i wanted him gone....my other brother and sister who lives with me...wanted him gone too.....but he trys to spin it on me like im the problem...saying im being just too sensitive. It didnt work. Then he was threatening to contest the WILL our parents made before they passed. Because I wanted him gone. And also he was cheating on his wife....sneaking a women into our house....and using my sisters bed to sleep with the woman he met.
When he got found out he was angry.
And he got worse over the next few months.
And he started all of this because....
He got kicked out of his own house and didnt like not having control...always wants control and wants thing to be his way all the time.....didnt like having to live with our rules...and was trying to be loud to establish dominance in the house...which didnt work out for him at all......so after 9 months with us.....he was finally gone....he got worse and start saying things to my sister that made her cry. And said things to my other brother too..
And he also acted the way he did because my dad was no longer around...he would have been afraid to act the way he did in front of my dad.....and when he kicked him out he was almost 50...but all his left he never grew up.
He seen it as a chance to be a loud mouth. Because he hated being kicked out of his wifes house and he thought we would tolerate him . So 2 our 3 days before my dad passed my brother moved in. And the first thing he started doing....singing really loudly. And he did it on the day of our dads funeral as we were all getting ready.
And he kept it up for a full 4 months as a way to test us all....every day....3 or 4 times a day singing really loudly...even standing over out shoulder in the kitchen breathing down on us when he saw were having dinner....anything to anger us. He stopped after 4 months because i wanted him gone....my other brother and sister who lives with me...wanted him gone too.....but he trys to spin it on me like im the problem...saying im being just too sensitive. It didnt work. Then he was threatening to contest the WILL our parents made before they passed. Because I wanted him gone. And also he was cheating on his wife....sneaking a women into our house....and using my sisters bed to sleep with the woman he met.
When he got found out he was angry.
And he got worse over the next few months.
And he started all of this because....
He got kicked out of his own house and didnt like not having control...always wants control and wants thing to be his way all the time.....didnt like having to live with our rules...and was trying to be loud to establish dominance in the house...which didnt work out for him at all......so after 9 months with us.....he was finally gone....he got worse and start saying things to my sister that made her cry. And said things to my other brother too..
And he also acted the way he did because my dad was no longer around...he would have been afraid to act the way he did in front of my dad.....and when he kicked him out he was almost 50...but all his left he never grew up.
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