A friend kinda tick me off.

Lately, I’ve been using my weekends to hang out with my family, eating out, riding my motorcycle, and exploring the province. Before this, my weekends were strictly for gaming with my friends.

I’ve explained to them that I don’t have time to play on weekends anymore because I’m prioritizing family. Recently, they mentioned me to hop on and play, and I told them I couldn't because I was out motorcycling with my sister. One of them replied: "Just say you don't have time for us."

That honestly ticked me off. It feels like they’re entitled to my time. That's really it, just didn't liked that message.

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OogieBoogie · F

The fact that you are making time for family in your 20's is quite mature.
Maybe you are moving forward and they aren't?

Real friends allow each other the space to grow and dont time the distance between seeing each other.

They also may fear that you are living a life bigger than theirs, and it may be making them feel inferior.

I think its great that you are making your own choices. That's a massive part of what life is about.