All you can do is to take solace in the fact that shel’ll find the truth when she passes.
What’s most important is that you absolve yourself of any guilt or anger. Just find happiness in your direct life. Families aren’t perfect.
Peace doesn’t come from her. It comes from inside you.
I’ve been through this three times, disowned, disinherited, not even told of either of either my parents or sister dying. It’s tough. It’s not normal. It’s not right, but it is an unfortunate reality. I wasn’t even told of their funerals.
Just look for support from those that do love you. It’s all you can do for now.
If it gets really bad, there’s always therapy for a bit just to help out. You can’t change the past. Just find happiness in your future. ❤
