Update
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

I feel like I can't forgive my mom for trying to abort me....

My mom tried to abort me and I was born alive.She is currently sick with cancer and is terminally ill. I keep calling her to try to talk to her but she hangs up on me. I am beyond frustrated. I feel like she is coming between me and peace. What should I do?
Top | New | Old
GoFish ·
why call then? 🤐😳 sorry she did that.. i'm anti abortion in general..
Adogslife · 61-69, M
All you can do is to take solace in the fact that shel’ll find the truth when she passes.

What’s most important is that you absolve yourself of any guilt or anger. Just find happiness in your direct life. Families aren’t perfect.

Peace doesn’t come from her. It comes from inside you.

I’ve been through this three times, disowned, disinherited, not even told of either of either my parents or sister dying. It’s tough. It’s not normal. It’s not right, but it is an unfortunate reality. I wasn’t even told of their funerals.

Just look for support from those that do love you. It’s all you can do for now.

If it gets really bad, there’s always therapy for a bit just to help out. You can’t change the past. Just find happiness in your future. ❤
You can't force a relationship, even with your mum.

May you have better, much better, people come into your life
Just make peace with yourself about. You survived despite her.
She wasn’t ready to be a mother then and it was before she loved you. You were born and loved you. Have you ever made a mistake or didn’t like someone at first?
Bonby2 · 61-69, M
Just a question,do you understand what your mom was taught about abortions? Could make a big difference
Wow, I can't imagine..!
I would never recommend against forgiveness, but I can't imagine a more difficult case to encourage it
LauriesDarkDesires · 31-35, F
Seek competent counseling right away.

This is too complicated an issue to rely on SW members advice … just saying

 
Post Comment