I have noticed a trend

When people are asked what would they say to a loved one who has passed, they almost always say they would tell them about their life, what they have done and that they think their loved one would be proud of them.

No one ever says they would ask them about their life, what was their favorite parts, their loves, their passions. Like ever.

If I had the chance to have my grandmother back, i would want to hear her life stories all over again so I can appreciate her as who she was and how she lived. To me, that would be the best thing in the world.