Told my wife to pursue her dream…….

My wife applied for multiple jobs in Florida without me knowing and now she has a zoom interview. She told me about it last night and made sure I knew it was a dream of hers and I was stopping that cause I don’t want to move. I told her I will not be the one to blame and that I won’t stop her. Told her she needed to go after it and move if that’s what she wants. So much has changed in her and her dreams since we got together. Maybe it’s time to let her go

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GoodoldBob · 61-69, M

Either go with her or tell her she needs to stay. Keep your priorities straight. You have a commitment to her. She is your wife.

Hoodski · 36-40, M

@GoodoldBob my priorities have been right the whole time

GoodoldBob · 61-69, M

@Hoodski No. Not really. Go read your wedding vows - you know the things you stood up before man and God and swore to. Think about what they say and mean.

Maybe then you will see clearly.

Hoodski · 36-40, M

@GoodoldBob I have been fighting for my marriage and putting in the work. Can’t force something that isn’t there and definitely not taking the blame for holding her back.