I miss my little brother

I miss who he used to be before he married his wife who very clearly hates my guts. He used to be the coolest, he used to have a sense of adventure and humor. We used to go places and do things and we would even play music together. That all slowly changed when he met his wife who turned him into a "yes dear" zombie. He went to college later in life and worked his ass off for this awesome teaching job he got a community college teaching music. I was proud of him for that because hey at least one of us did something right in life. His wife got him into this church I can't remember the denomination I think it's Methodist? Well he started out as a regular parishioner which is fine whatever gives you hope I guess but then he got involved with the church band. My brother plays bass and became their bassist and he even roped me into playing guitar for a bit because bonding and come on Ivan just like old times. I quit after like two sessions because they sucked and church isn't my thing. People are free to believe as they wish but it's not for me and he knows that. Well come to find out he has quit his nice teaching job and now is some administrative assistant at that church. Naturally I felt the need to say something when I was over at his place last and that's when his wife shouted at me and had to insert herself into a conversation she wasn't a part of. I ended up telling her just because she married my brother doesn't mean she owns him and that I am his big brother and have a right to question his choices. There was a lot of back and forth with her throwing mud on my past and how I am all of these things. I ended up just leaving because I could feel my blood pressure rising and I didn't want to get anymore upset than I already was.

Just really sucks to see someone you love turn into a shell of who they once were and completely change. One day maybe the real david will wake up.