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Why does my mom go insane anytime I bring up that she and my dad should get a will for the house.

Or if I bring up my wishes that I can live in the house when they are gone. (I've lived with them most of my life and still do) I consider this my home. I've never been married, never had a real partner. I've struggled my whole life trying to make more money. They see this. But have no understanding of why I'd be better off in life here with a house my dad's father ended up paying off years ago. It is paid off and the only bills we have are internet and electric. They make up excuses that I won't be able to afford it, or like my mom mentioned tonight that I wouldn't keep it up or mow the grass. I told her no one has asked me to mow. Plus I'd be taking care of it more than they do. Weeds are completely overgrown in the garden. I'm about to take care of that myself soon. I trim the ivy off couple times a year. I'm the one taking care of ant problems we have. They sit and watch tv all day long while I'm washing dishes or dusting and whatever else. Why would a parent wish for me to be homeless versus just living in the house I've always known my whole life. It's not even a sensitive subject, but she treats it like it is!! Gets so irate when it is brought up
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Diotrephes · 70-79, M
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What State do you live in?

Depending on the State you could get a Transfer on Death Deed, which will avoid the probate process that you have to go through with a will when transferring real estate.. It costs less than $50 at the county office and can be completed in about 5 minutes or less.

"A "death deed" is a legal document called a Transfer on Death Deed (TODD) that allows property owners to name a beneficiary to receive their real estate automatically upon their death, avoiding the need for probate. The owner keeps full control of the property during their lifetime, but after death, the property transfers to the named beneficiary, who may need to provide a death certificate and an affidavit to claim it. These deeds are not available in every state and are not suitable for every situation, so it is wise to consult an attorney to ensure they are correct for your needs.
How a Transfer on Death (TOD) Deed works
Name a beneficiary: The owner fills out the deed, naming the person or people who will inherit the property.
File the deed: The completed document is filed with the local land records office.
Maintain ownership and control: The owner retains full control of the property. They can sell it, refinance it, or make changes to it at any time.
Automatic transfer upon death: When the owner dies, the property passes directly to the beneficiary, bypassing the probate court process.
Beneficiary claims the property: The beneficiary will need to provide a death certificate and may need to complete an affidavit to claim ownership.
Key benefits of using a TOD deed
Avoids probate: This can save beneficiaries time, money, and stress associated with the probate process.
Maintains control: The owner can continue to manage and dispose of the property as they wish while alive.
No gift tax consequences: The transfer upon death is not considered a gift, so gift taxes do not apply.
Important considerations
State and local laws: TOD deeds are only available in some states and the process can be different depending on your location.
Potential for errors: Mistakes can be made when drafting these documents, so it is best to seek legal advice to ensure the deed is created correctly.
Impact on other assets: A TOD deed only transfers the specific property listed. It is not a substitute for a full estate plan that covers all assets.
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