Where do I go?

I am having some issues with a renter who is sharing a house with my father and I. We get into these blow outs because she feels she is perfect and never makes mistakes and I catch the brunt of it because she doesn't like me. I am an adult and treats and treats me like a child. Always threatening to go to the police if I don't shape up. Just petty stuff like that to try and get under my skin. Unfortunately I can't evict her due to not being the homeowner. Yet I don't know what to do for this to stop and for her to shut up.Not only that she interrupts me when I talk have also considered moving out myself but my father needs me because I am his caregiver since my mother died. I do most of the cleaning and cooking. She doesn't know how to do any of that. Maybe by venting my frustrations I can get a new perspective. Any way thanks in advance

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Gipeswic · 61-69, FNew

Why do you put up with her?
Get some advice about ending her lease because it may be a difficult thing to do if you are not the landlord and your father is considering it is his house she is in.
If the lease is still in a fixed term, you can only end it early with a break clause or mutual agreement. But do what you can to get rid of her because you don't need this kind of person around you or your father especially as you are his caregiver.

urbancowboy · 56-60, M

@Gipeswic Thanks I will go through the proper legal channels to end this once and for all

Gipeswic · 61-69, FNew

@urbancowboy Good, for the sake of your own and your father's peace of mind. 👌

Levenrack · 46-50, M

@urbancowboy Yeah, get PD and landlord involved. Document every negative thing she says and does.

Edit- ok so I read the rest of the comments.
If she does not have a lease, then start making complaints to the owner about her behavior. Either she'll keep on going the way she's going, and get herself kicked out, or the problems should start to go away.

urbancowboy · 56-60, M

@Levenrack Thank you for that. The wheels are turning in my mind to do the right thing in protecting myself