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I talked to my son today

I asked him if his 2 year plan about moving out was still on. I already knew the answer, sort of.

He said that his girlfriend was suppsed to be working, saving up koney to move out, but since her leg broke and rebroke, that hasn't happened.

I didn't even want to get into the fact that he could have been saving money as well and hasn't, but that is really not my business.

I let him know that I am getting really tired of seeing my house trashed every time I come home or come out of my room. It's disappointing and upsetting. Especially since he does not contribute anything to the upkeep of the house and his girlfriend was paying $100 a month, but I told her since she is out of work, to not worry about it.

He made excuses, which he already knows I hate.

But he has been made aware of the issues. We'll see what happens.
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Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
This is a tough one, how old is he?
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@FoxyQueen Good morning! I am sorry, enough said, i hope he pays heed to what you had to say. I'm not sure what options you have to get him out of the house. Does his girlfriend live with him/ you I hope not.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Fieldmaster She does.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@FoxyQueen wow, and it's all on your shoulder, bless you!
What can I say, otherthan there appears to be complete lack of selfrespect and dignity. I would die from shame.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Fieldmaster It is ironic ina way as he used to berate my last boyfriend that lived with me for all the things he is currently doing. It doesn't seem to dawn on him that he has become what he didn't like. I hope he comes to some realizations soon.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@FoxyQueen wow, that is ironic people do that A lot of people I know who don't like something or have had abused. But then I see them inflicting on others.I don't get it. What a shame and he's doing it to his mother.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Fieldmaster I know he doesn't see it that way. I will still advocate for myself and help him find his way.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
@FoxyQueen it's a shame and his girlfriend should also be ashamed to say the least. Please do.
This is not right morally and actively a grown man.