I'd probably be okay with my son

and his girlfriend living here if the dishes I got for me didn't end up horded in their rooms, leaving me with no utensils to take to work on a Monday.

😐

Utensils I bought so I wouldn't have to use plastic and add to the landfill.

(She is a horder rebranded as a "maximalist' and he is just a slob. I don't go upstairs because I hate seeing my house look the way it does)

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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

I've just come out of a household like this. As it wasn't my home and I couldn't live like that I came out. But if it were my home, they'd seriously have to buck up their ideas or find somewhere else to live. Because in my eyes that's disrespecting me and my home.
And I shouldn't have to feel burdened when I'm doing someone a favour.
And this is a major burden and inconvenience.