That’s a pretty cruel thing to say and I would probably keep my distance. I would be hostile, but I’d engage as little as possible.

I have a view on both sides.

If someone said that to me, yes, I'd distance myself from a lot of interactions.

That said. My oldest sister is a very difficult, sometimes hateful and always loud and self centered person, i love her dearly. Because she is my sister, and it's just way she is.
I also know that if she was someone I met off the streets, no, we wouldn't be friends. Or even like eachother. But nothing in this world or anything she ever did would make me tell her that. That would be unfeeling on my part.

They love because it's what they think they should do. Not enough. I would attempt to make the relationship better for a time, but if nothing shows from their end then I've done all i can do and it is what it is. There are better ways to spend my time.

I’d keep my distance. Connect with those who like me as a person and don’t feel obligated to.

Kept my distance...

First and foremost....
Though family is important, I've cut off having anything to do with them.

Its a matter of my own well-being not what they have done or how they live their lives.

I keep my distance and know I can help them or they can help me because we have similar dna

friendship? why? they said they don't like you.

I stopped caring a long time ago. I am who I am, if they wanted a sweet little girl, they should have adopted. I say that you can't grow strawberries on tomato vines.

Why would anyone want to be around people they don't like? There's no point in pursuing a relationship. Their minds are made up.

The only thing worse then being all alone is being around people who make you feel all alone.

That's actually imo best that they feel that, those who take their "love" to the next level is like a weird and persistent nightmare.

Keep my distance… I don’t need that kind of love in my life haha

I would take a good hard look at myself to see why I was disliked.

Those who think this about you are the ones who impose the distance.

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