Serious question...
If your family stated that they love you because your family, but they don't like you as a person, would you pursue relationships with them or keep your distance?
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I have a view on both sides.
If someone said that to me, yes, I'd distance myself from a lot of interactions.
That said. My oldest sister is a very difficult, sometimes hateful and always loud and self centered person, i love her dearly. Because she is my sister, and it's just way she is.
I also know that if she was someone I met off the streets, no, we wouldn't be friends. Or even like eachother. But nothing in this world or anything she ever did would make me tell her that. That would be unfeeling on my part.
If someone said that to me, yes, I'd distance myself from a lot of interactions.
That said. My oldest sister is a very difficult, sometimes hateful and always loud and self centered person, i love her dearly. Because she is my sister, and it's just way she is.
I also know that if she was someone I met off the streets, no, we wouldn't be friends. Or even like eachother. But nothing in this world or anything she ever did would make me tell her that. That would be unfeeling on my part.
@ScreamingFox no, i am as comfortable in her presence as i am with my other sister who I'm close to, now there is times I do not like being around her. When i know she's going to go on a rant.
But I'm comfortable enough around her, and we're sisters, I'll just say "ffs chill tf out, it ain't that serious'
My other sister will bust out laughing, then we all will and moment passes
But I'm comfortable enough around her, and we're sisters, I'll just say "ffs chill tf out, it ain't that serious'
My other sister will bust out laughing, then we all will and moment passes