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A talent for contradictions, both a mysogynist and a sexist

Depends on the context.
I bought her paint to paint her home and hired a guy to do it.
We had a major fight over bringing a stranger man. Because all men are dangerous apparently. Everyone is busy around this time, because of marketing and harvests.
The guy is fine. I left him alone in my home fixing things and he never stole anything. He just minds his own business, does his work, eats in my kitchen, gets paid and leaves. He also never made any moves on me. So I don't see why he would hit on her.

Anyways, I think she just wanted me to do it myself and made huge deal about it. But hey, maybe she is genuinely scared of men now and I fail to see that because of my biases. I don't know.

Few hours after I got sick due to the stress of the argument, she calls me to ask at what hour the painting will start. It bothers that she doesn't find out if I am fit enough to do it myself.
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Gibbon · 70-79, M
People's expectations are mind boggling sometimes. And how little thought they put into what a job requires when asking for assistance and if they are asking are fit enough for some jobs.
Miram · 31-35, F
@Gibbon I am definitely not fit enough.

She now wants a different kind of paint so i will use the one I bought her. It is okay as i need time to recover for couple days before I can pain or anything requiring toi much physical exertion.
Gibbon · 70-79, M
@Miram I know you are not up to it from reading your posts.
I've been so sedentary I'm becoming worthless but am trying to slowly reverse it with exercise bands.
I made my comment thinking back to the days I was having chemo and going to work after treatments. Of course my body felt weak but I could do my job moving the equipment I needed to inspect with patience. The guys in shipping would come and ask me to help move heavy crates out of a shipping container knowing what I was going through. I was just flabbergasted thinking Really? I politely said guys you know I can't do that.
smiler2012 · 61-69
@Miram 🤔sounds like there are trust issues with her over men 🤔maybe if you had consulted her first on your plans you could of saved yourself a whole lot of grief 🤷‍♂
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Miram · 31-35, F
@SnickersDOM that is what I suggested too and she found a reason not to.
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