Parents and me

@MartinTheFirst Hey Martin! Bedn a while hope yer well.

Unfortunately especially in Indian culture this system is starting to fail for a range o reasons. If it a happy family then once the Son gets married the wife makes demands for them t b separate or divorce. If parents are awesome the kids may be right twats who give their parents grief! Emotionally or financially. A Uni degree but no jobs within a certain range means either travel over 18 miles t work (one way) or stay stuck with any old minimum paid jobs.

EDIT: My biggest regret in life's not moving out at 23. Living with insufferable beings is a huge shame! Sister n mum didn't get along well I was usually caught between the two. I wasted my 20's and hopefully my kids won't b the same (but too early t say anything ).

My friends' former colleague is early 40's and resigned due to Mental illness. Still at home and his mum is toxic. I personally know a son who kicked his parents out of THEIR home using deceit he got their signatures to say property is HIS. Family feud over dad business - SO MUCH SHI GOING ON!

@Sazzio Hmm well most people dont travel large distances either way for their first job, I certainly wouldn't. Also, the family dynamic is not universal where parents and children irk each other lol, I mean we all have our differences and fights will happen but that's just how humans work. If it works for someone, then you shouldn't judge them for it.

@MartinTheFirst I was 30 when we moved out. Wife had enough of my mum and can't blame my wife at all. She tolerated mum for over a year.