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Well, I am cutting my sister out of my life finally.

I love her but I am done with how she treats me. I ask for support and she lectures me and tells me I shouldn’t do things or she doesn’t support me when I’m happy. She only looks out for herself. I’m just done with it. I think she faked empathy and only truly cares about herself and her son (thankfully!). I have always been anxious around her and always compared myself. She has always received more attention and my family told me it was because she needed it more than me, but didn’t I deserve attention too. I’m starting to think most of my closest family have no empathy. It’s so upsetting. I feel like my life was a lie.
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Sazzio · 36-40, M
My sister was a bit herself MINUS tryna seek attention. She wanted the best for me and her fam but believed in "Saving EVERYTHING " (money, energy bills) for the "Unseen" future. She would switch off TV and unused plugs from the main to save electricity. Her biggest lecture and downfall was orthorexic behavior.

But we kinda just put up with her believing in her as she wasn't seeking attention at all, nor was she selfish.
Justbekind24 · 26-30, F
It went horribly, I tried explaining how I was feeling and turned it around on me and tried to make me feel guilty for living my own life.
No, your life was and is real; they are the liars.

I think that they just sort of gave up on you and decided to prefer your sister.

That's really screwed up to have your nuclear family and another ring or so of family be like that.

Perhaps this clarity will give you the freedom to explore being who you truly are...
Sexyfetish1736 · 18-21, MNew
Hi i feel sorry for u i am hear for u if u want to talk
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
Congratulations on asserting your boundaries.
Mark12 · 61-69, M
Do you feel like you are written out of the family script, and what ever you do it isn't good enough! Maybe your family don't see you anymore or tell you you are useless. When about your mum is she siding with your sister and always makes allowance for her
Justbekind24 · 26-30, F
@Mark12 everyone just excuses her

 
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