Estranged relatives.

Ive been estranged from a sister since maybe 2020ish after a big falling out. We used to be close when our parents were alive but after they died it exacerbated some already existing problems and we haven’t spoken in about 3 years. We had some friends in common and now when they ask how my sister is doing or what she is up to, I never know how to answer. I don’t really wanna air out dirty laundry or invite discussion about it. I also don’t wanna embarrass them for asking - Even extended family doesn't know anything about it and I don’t really wanna tell them either.

Whats a clever way to navigate to this awkward situation?

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BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F

My sister and I is 10 yrs in age apart and we never got along either. I stopped talking to her for 6 months and she was surprised but I decided to just separate myself. It's a long story but in your situation just don't give them an answer when they ask. Just ask them have they talked to her. No one wants to reminded that they don't speak to a sibling.