Estranged relatives.

Ive been estranged from a sister since maybe 2020ish after a big falling out. We used to be close when our parents were alive but after they died it exacerbated some already existing problems and we haven’t spoken in about 3 years. We had some friends in common and now when they ask how my sister is doing or what she is up to, I never know how to answer. I don’t really wanna air out dirty laundry or invite discussion about it. I also don’t wanna embarrass them for asking - Even extended family doesn't know anything about it and I don’t really wanna tell them either.

Whats a clever way to navigate to this awkward situation?

Reason10 · 70-79, M

There is no clever way. There is no way except one that is uncomfortable. If you want to avoid the awkward situation of having to explain your family conflicts, just remember that it's nobody's business.

I only hope that separation doesn't last, because separated siblings lose a lot in the process.