Did you grow up with strict or chill parents?

I found out I was adopted after my mother passed. I would have been happy never knowing. It's apparently what my mother wanted. My parents were awesome now that I know enough about the troubles of other families. Adopted or not they were my parents and will always be considered as such. Even after I found out I didn't give much thought to who gave me up. I know their nationality and thats all. I was more pissed off at the relative who broke my mother's wishes and never spoke to her again.