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Give up trying to get help

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Police cant/won't do anything and my socal worker I can't get a hold of so I guess till any physical harm is done they won't step in what a joke this world has become

I had an incident with my 8 month olds dad on 12th he was shouting at her because he couldn't stop her crying and another time same day that he couldn't do her nappy and got cross.
I went and got advice from police and reached out to family court advisor but nothing they will do as it's court order for him to see her and talk with them which I've tired to do.
I've spoken to my socal service and I've told them baby's dad will be on supervised visatatuons and my mum will be with him and anything else happens my mum will remove her.
When I told this to Paul my ex he said that if my mum is to come anywhere near him or our daughter while he has her he will call the police and that he will no longer stay at the center for visitation he will take her wherever he wants with whoever he wants. No one cares to help me at all but apparently if I go against the court order I could face prison or a fine are they seriously?
I have no faith with professionals at all anymore they are no good they never help unless it's too late then what it's my fault? Usless
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updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well sorry but it sound like trouble is ahead and he has to follow the rules and if he does not report it and no the court say how the visitation goes not your Ex . I would suggest you have a up to date pic of him and your child and a pic of his car and licence plate and s i n and cell and where he works and family . and also write down the bank he deals with and bank and if he has credit cards . If they are meeting at your house use nanny camera and audio
@updown2020 What you suggest is illegal
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@updown2020 thing is I was only with him 2 and a half months so I don't even know him
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@MiraRoss Well you better find out as much as you can because the more you have as info the it can help if the worse happens , The fact he trying to control who's around when he has visitation should set off alarms in your head..
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@updown2020 everything for a week after breaking up with him has set alarms off but on court or professional care about all that