Men answer this honestly

You don’t need to be in love with the mother to take care of your child. You need to realize you’re a father and your relationship with your child is #1

You have to be present with your child and be your child’s role model and teacher

A real man does not stop taking care of his child/children when he and the mother are no longer involved with each other in a relationship

A real man takes care of his children, regardless of what happens with the mother, and he continues to coparent with the mother and work with the mother for the benefit of the children’s health, happiness, and future.