Co parenting

I have a 6.ontj old baby and I'm trying so hard to make it work with her dad. She needs to keep to her schedule as much as possible he has an hour with her on friday and that's for 4 weeks after that it will increase to 2 hours for next month.
We had broken up before I knew I was pregnant he's seen her once in March as he told me not to contract him as he was taking me to court as he didn't agree on my arrangements but through court I told them same thing and he had to agree to it.
He's currently taking her to surestart sessions which is good for both of them as he learns how to look after her and her needs as he hasn't done any parenting courses and it's first kid
Thing I want to know is am I being too much asking him to keep to her schedule?
He will do next month in the community which he intends to walk around with her in the community which isn't beneficial to them both as she will most likely sleep so I told him about her schedule of her baby sensations and baby messy play sessions she has but he's not going to do it as he will do whatever he likes with her and it's not my concern.
Am I being to much? Am I wrong in wanting her to keep to a schedule?

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WhyThooo · 31-35

He shouldn't even have her if he can't stand to find that important as her parent. God. Men. So annoying. But yeah obviously not unreasonable, he needs to step up or get out of the way.

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@WhyThooo if it was other way round I'd just be happy to be with her no matter why she was. It's just so hard he's so unhappy when he's not in control

WhyThooo · 31-35

@MiraRoss Sounds like the typical manbaby dad type where he wants to inconvenience you more than care for his child. Hope he grows up and can make more of an effort to work with and not against you.

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@WhyThooo he doesn't work either so it's not like he has alot of commitments.
We are back in court in October so if he's not gonna work with me he will see what court does as he's going against what the court said

WhyThooo · 31-35

@MiraRoss Hope the court acts appropriately. Dude is probably gonna get what he asked for with his actions, less time with his daughter, then complain about how you and the court system are evil for it lol. As they do.

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@WhyThooo this is the 3rd time making it work I've tried my best