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my sons father doesnt want to help me and wants to guve up his rights because i dont want to be with him and i dont think thats fair because he has a huge settlement and i need help and i would ask him for help he tells me he will give up his rights. If i apply for child support will he still be ordered to pay child support because this isnt fair!! Everyday hes telling me im going to suffer and its not fair at all , he constantly dangles how he has 100 k in his account because his mom died in a hospital.. regardless of the fact, men should not be able to run from responsibilities!!
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Iwillwait · M
He's financially responsible for your child. Whether or not he wants legal access. Fight for your kid in court.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@Iwillwait
Geus financially responsible for your guy's child. Whether or not he wants legal access. Fight for your kid in court.
It's best to stay on friendly terms or else the guy could flip out and commit murder. It happens all the time.
hopefulmoon · 26-30, F
@Diotrephes well damn thats scary
CactusJackManson · 51-55, M
@Diotrephes You're drinking again
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@CactusJackManson
You're drinking again

Read the news!!!

‘How much is too much to allow a 2-year-old to live?’ Murder trial over $600 child support payments ends in a conviction.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/public-safety/how-much-is-too-much-to-allow-a-2-year-old-to-live-murder-trial-over-600-child-support-payments-ends-in-a-conviction/2018/04/04/847a1180-549c-4032-92d7-7e17f6f800ff_story.html

Las Vegas lawyer and his wife were killed amid custody fight for her children from prior marriage, family says
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/las-vegas-lawyer-wife-killed-custody-fight-children-prior-marriage-fam-rcna147980

Man who killed baby, ex to avoid child support gets two life sentences
https://wreg.com/news/local/man-gets-two-life-sentences-for-murder-of-baby-mother/

Utah shooting: A man killed his family after wife filed for divorce
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-64172722

Man who killed woman and baby to avoid child support gets life term
https://www.cbs8.com/article/news/man-who-killed-woman-and-baby-to-avoid-child-support-gets-life-term/509-560d855e-1f36-44dd-8e0a-122b388ab185

Texas man accused of killing woman over child support
https://www.hollowaylawsa.com/blog/2014/07/texas-man-accused-of-killing-woman-over-child-support/

Man admits to 2019 killing of mother of his child over child support
https://www.ksdk.com/article/news/crime/man-admitts-2019-killing-mother-child-support/63-aae6697c-a21f-4d09-bbd3-712981852a0c

Man murders mother of his daughter over child support payments
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/london-man-murder-mother-daughter-child-support-payments-mark-morris-latest-a8072786.html
CactusJackManson · 51-55, M
@Diotrephes So, that means this particular guy is definitely a killer?
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@CactusJackManson
So, that means this particular guy is definitely a killer?
No, it doesn't. But none of the other guys were killers until they flipped out over this issue. When people get divorced and go to court over child support and child custody issues things can turn deadly in a minute. Sometimes the guy may think that the kid isn't his.

Watch some of the episodes of the Steve Wilkos Show = https://stevewilkos.com

People don't know how to dicuss complex serious issues calmly. That is a very dangerous time in a relationship.
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hopefulmoon · 26-30, F
@CactusJackManson imma be honest , my sons father is abusive and has almost killed me in the past , we have a restraining order but of course i need help and i want to be safe .
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@hopefulmoon Sorry about your situation. You must be very careful to avoid getting into a loud shouting match argument. If you talk to him, stay calm and try to get him to focus on his attachment to his son and how he should want his son to have a good and safe life, free from wants. If he starts to get angry stay calm and say that you have a medical appointment that you have to leave for.
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Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@hopefulmoon If you want to drop the nuclear bomb just have a calm discussion with him and tell him how much you love the child and want to provide for him as a good parent should. Tell him that you know that he loves his son and that in the interest of eliminating further conflict, you are willing to let him have sole custody to raise to adulthood without your interference, but, that since you are poor, you won't be able to give him any financial support. I may have missed the boy's age but if he's a toddler chances are your husband will do a quick retreat. Of course there's always the chance that he will say yes but make it clear that you won't be able to pay any child support or the deal is off.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@CactusJackManson
So she shouldn't take him to court because he might kill her?

She wote:
imma be honest , my sons father is abusive and has almost killed me in the past , we have a restraining order but of course i need help and i want to be safe .

Based on her comments, the guy is very dangerous. Are you a gambler?