Digging the grave? ( I have posted this few times)

That happened to my mom as well.

She had gotten somewhat heavy during the last 10 years or so of a 30+ year marriage.

After the divorce she lost a lot of weight and gained back her pre-marriage figure, but by then her mental attitude towards men was very negative. Years later, when she eventually passed, she was still very bitter towards men in general.

A breakup can have some rather extreme effects on a woman. Her weight loss could very well be due to emotional stresses.

Are you concerned that she might be sick with something more serious?
If so, have a talk with her. See if she will agree to have a blood panel done.

Genelia, first I am sorry for you loss.

it is hard to answer you poll because we don't know your path your path healing. I voted yes but you should if and only when you are ready.

If learning about what may have happened to her helps you heal you should do that.

If learning about what may have helped you either does not help you or worse hurts you, you should not understand.

Over you time you should consider looking into it. I think it is tough though. It sounds like there ins' t much evidence to really look at based on your O.P.

Having gone through this, there are some things better left uncovered. Try to remember the good times and when she was happy and healthy. Those memories are much more comforting.

Not really, always something more than what's visible. She could've had a different medical condition that something unseen triggered. It's a rabbit hole

You're going to pursue it regardless of the answers. Your curiosity will eat you alive and you'll cave.

If it bothers you that she looked like that near the end, pursue it.