Annoying venting post : I'm writing this for me you don't have to comment ..try to be positive about family gatherings on my side of the family

There is always someone who thinks I need to.be "fixed" because they think their unwarranted advice is being " helpful " or that my house needs this or that or should have certain things ...which causes me to retreat and not want to be around them . This has been my entire life ...pretty much ...I don't need anything..I don't need to be fixed. This is who I am ...and I don't need validation from anyone of that . I know who I am ..I just need people to back off and stop trying to "fix " what isn't broken ...just because I'm not like them . Fucking family are pains in the asses ...overbearing and annoying...🙄
.Happy Thanksgiving...