It is difficult to accept that your parents can make life of their children difficult

My parents are emotionally blackmailing me. I think they are feeling insecure after I got married. They don't like my wife. They are behaving unreasonably. We have never things but they are unnecessary creating issues. They criticise my wife. Father is using filthy language. I protested and they became more hyper. Sometime they even start crying.

My wife is not perfect and I am also not. But it is not such that they are creating so much mess at home.

It is so difficult to believe that they really don't care about my happiness. I think they are not even aware that they are feeling insecure. They want control over us.

I am going through this tough time. I am just writing here because it helps me.