Is it normal for a mother to try to find a girlfriend for her son?

@Muthafukajones This lady I know keeps talking to me about her son cause she feels like he "chooses" the wrong type of women romantically and I guess she thinks I'd be a better option. So I can see how it comes from a place of concern whether it's the son being lonely or being in a toxic relationship. But yea the why is the important part

@Spectra we choose the wrong people because of some other short coking in our lives. She could help her son by helping with that.

@Muthafukajones Yea otherwise even if he ends up with somebody better, he'll just push her away even unintentionally

@Spectra raising our own self esteem and self love is the best way to increase the attraction others of better quality have for us

@Muthafukajones 💯

@Spectra He needs a good father figure to help him with women. My dad was super alpha male… I never felt comfortable asking him
About how to be a man… and he never told me… years of learning on my own. I have great advice if I have a son!

@Muthafukajones Yea I've heard dads are like that with their sons but I do feel a lot of guys would be better off if they did feel that comfort. Think a lot of guys are sort of just lost in some ways. Same goes for women and their mothers. A lot of us grew up with insecurities mostly just from being a teenager in school where for some reason there's just this inherent tension. Everyone wanted to be the skinniest, prettiest, have the best hair etc. stuff like that. And that was even before social media was as prominent as it is now. I had a family that always emphasized self-love, focus on values vs all the superficial things in life. I still have my own issues but my heart really goes out to ppl who didn't have that support growing up.