What is their problem?

I have been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs. He's also 10 yrs older than me. I'm 45, He's 55. But the only thing is he looks older than 55 due to a stressful life. Family, jail, drugs as well. My uncle made a comment to me at a get together (that my bf attended) saying he looks older. My dad made a comment today after I took his pic and said that he looked liked my bf. My dad is 77. I'm fed up with the comments. I even sent a pic to my friend in Florida of us and she said he looked like my dad!
Geez 😑
Any Thoughts

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

Why are they so worried about what he looks like? That’s weird. Tell them you love him and to stop commenting.

BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F

@iamonfire696 Thankyou. I didn't want to let my dad know it bothered me so I act as if I didn't hear it. I just remember it and act accordingly. (if that makes sense)

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@BeautifulLibra That completely makes sense. I would just ignore it and hopefully they drop it. 10 years isn’t that big of an age gap. If he treats you well and you love him, that’s what matters.

BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F

@iamonfire696 Thanks for your input😊

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@BeautifulLibra You’re welcome