What is their problem? I have been with my boyfriend for 10 yrs. He's also 10 yrs older than...

SW-User

If you're happy who cares what people say

almondflour · 46-50, F

Sometimes people do look older, but if he is a great man that shouldn't matter, they should just keep their comments to themselves because what they say is rude.

deadgerbil · 26-30, M

Just say "ok great, anything else you'd like to add?"

496sbc · 36-40, M

Just ignore them hun u like the guy thats what counts

BiasForAction · M

If you like how he looks don’t wiry about the naysayers

Carissimi · F

Why not take it gracefully. Unless you know your family is mean, then just accept they are making a factual remark. Does your boyfriend look like your dad? If so, agree and accept it. No need to be upset.

SmileOnYourBrother

weird

deathfairy ·

ur dad seems insecure to comment that to u about ur bf. he well knows that’s not fact. as for the rest, you guys are aging, no one is going to lie about that, but who cares. if you both love and respect each other, that’s all that matters. ppl say stuff without thinking how it makes others feel and that’s prob not going to be the last time it will happen.