You are being treated like a child and/or abused. If I were in your position I would move out. Time to take control of your life.
P.S. when you raise kids, don't paddle them. World Health Org has studied it.
* Evidence shows corporal punishment increases children’s behavioural problems over time and has no positive outcomes.
* All corporal punishment, however mild or light, carries an inbuilt risk of escalation. Studies suggest that parents who used corporal punishment are at heightened risk of perpetrating severe maltreatment.
* Corporal punishment is linked to a range of negative outcomes for children across countries and cultures, including physical and mental ill-health, impaired cognitive and socio-emotional development, poor educational outcomes, increased aggression and perpetration of violence.
https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/corporal-punishment-and-health
