A big L for my dad

I've always had a complicated relationship with my dad. we love each other but we don't exactly get along well. sometimes he talks down to me and he gets mad at me over really petty things and something so small and insufficient that's not even worth getting upset about

Dads are tough. I’m a tough dad. I grew up with a tough dad, but be yourself.

I don't know how old your father is, or how old you are, but it might be just time to write him off.