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My gf/baby’s mother treats me like shit most days.

Hanging in there hoping things will change but she’s depressed and shit and disrespectful to me. Like really I pay 100 % of the bills for you, me, my daughter and her daughter my step daughter and I can’t get any respect most days, get treated like shit most days? I wish I was single I’d be better off I could sell my house and pocket $100,000 and live less miserably because of her. I want to see other girls but I also want to wait and try to work it out for my baby daughter. Just venting. Advice and input would be nice thanks
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Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@YoungGunna Instead of arguing and flipping out, try telling her how much you love her and how happy and excited you are to see her when you come home everyday. Tell her how sweet her kisses are and how calming her touches are. Lay it on thick. Then tell her, because you love her so much and want her to be happy, you feel depressed at the thought that you are not making her happy and fulfilling her dreams and desires for what she wants in a husband. Put the blame on yourself for failing her. Never blame her in any way because it will only make her angry and things will become sour very quickly. If she comes to your defense you will know that she still loves and want you. If she attacks you in any way then you know that you have some real problems and need to start working on a solution that will be reasonable for you.

Remember, if you get divorced you will have to pay child support for years, which will take a big chunk out of your wallet. Then, there's the property settlement so you could end up homeless if you don't have enough money left over after paying child support and other expenses to afford a place to lay your head.

BTW, if you think other women will be an improvement you are cruising for a real bruising.

Good luck.