I feel like crap everyday now

My dad passed away on the 10th of this month and I'm feeling very sad, I have no one to lean or to turn to for support at all. I'm greiving alone and I feel so sad, I've tried to turn to my mom in this difficult time for me all to be told to just "get over it already" when I'm hurting because I lost a parent. both her and my siblings tell me to stop crying that I need to get over it already that I should be "tough" their stupid asses only say that because they weren't on good terms with him, so they aren't affected at all by his passing. my mom even said that she was happy that he died. I'm tired of having my feelings invaldated idk why my family supports other people who are in emotional pain but will dismiss my feelings. I really have no one to turn to any advice?

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Carissimi · 70-79, F

Your family are cold and callous. Shut them out of your life. They do more harm to you than good.

My condolences on the loss of your father. Your grief is normal, it’s your family that is abnormal. Take as much time as you need to grieve. It’s a process. I would not be sharing anything with these sociopaths. It will be very hard to mourn alone, but I have done it more than once. It makes it much harder when you are without love, support, and comfort, but you will get through it. Hugs.

Pinkglitter · 31-35, F

@Carissimi Thank you, ❤️ I am going to stay away from them because they are only making me feel worse and I see that they are selfish and narcissistic so, at this point I'm like fck them. It'll be hard going through this alone but I know that my dad wants me to be ok I'm going to honor him.

Carissimi · 70-79, F

Yes, it will be hard, but you are strong, I can tell. You will get through this, and the memory of your dad, and honoring him this way, he will give you strength. God bless you. 🤗🙏@Pinkglitter

Pinkglitter · 31-35, F

@Carissimi Thank you, for your support and kind words I appreciate it ❤️