Caught my 15 year old son wearing my thong

I’m a mom of 3 boys. One is 15, and the other 2 are 12 (they are twins). Saturday my oldest son had his door shut but not all the way. He had his music loud so I went to ask him to turn it down. When I went to open it I could see him through the small opening since it wasn’t fully shut and he was wearing one of my pink thongs!! I immediately walked away so shocked, and completely lost on how to handle the situation or if I should even do anything hoping it was a one time/phase thing. So today while he was out with his dad I snooped through his room which I normally never would do, but I considered the situation making it ok for me to invade his privacy. Under his bed in a shoe box I ended up finding 3 pairs of my thongs which I’m assuming he is wearing since I saw him wearing the pink one. I want to try to handle this without my husband knowing because he would flip out. Advice please!! Thanks.. concerned mom of a teen boy.

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ArishMell · 70-79, M

Hmmm. Potentially very embarrassing for all.

It is good though that you really care about how to handle this./

Looking at what others have said I'd agree with the gentle hinting that you know.

Such as a note on top of some new items that are for him, or one saying something like,

"You know you should not wear other people's clothes without asking to borrow them, but I've forgotten there are two NEW pairs still in their wrapping in my top drawer. Luv, Mum" .

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When I was in my 20s and the last of four to flee the nest, I found an old miniskirt once belonging to my sister. One day I forgot to hide it. It disappeared. No-one ever mentioned it, and to this day I never know to where it went, nor by whom.....