Caught my 15 year old son wearing my thong

I’m a mom of 3 boys. One is 15, and the other 2 are 12 (they are twins). Saturday my oldest son had his door shut but not all the way. He had his music loud so I went to ask him to turn it down. When I went to open it I could see him through the small opening since it wasn’t fully shut and he was wearing one of my pink thongs!! I immediately walked away so shocked, and completely lost on how to handle the situation or if I should even do anything hoping it was a one time/phase thing. So today while he was out with his dad I snooped through his room which I normally never would do, but I considered the situation making it ok for me to invade his privacy. Under his bed in a shoe box I ended up finding 3 pairs of my thongs which I’m assuming he is wearing since I saw him wearing the pink one. I want to try to handle this without my husband knowing because he would flip out. Advice please!! Thanks.. concerned mom of a teen boy.

PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

I did that when I was around 13....it maybe just curiousity for him...it was for me. Not sure how to handle it but if it were me I probably would not make a big deal about it. I might at some point when alone with him just bring up that you went to his room to talk to him....his door was cracked and you saw him in it...then see how he reacts. Don't mention the shoebox.